Discovering you’re unexpectedly pregnant can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re unsure what to do if parenting doesn’t seem like the right option. You’re not alone in facing this decision, and taking the time to understand your choices is a vital first step.

Two common alternatives to parenting are abortion and adoption. Let’s explore the key aspects of both to help you make an informed decision that aligns with your values and circumstances.

Considering Abortion

Abortion is a serious medical procedure with both physical and mental health considerations. There are two types of abortion: medical and surgical.

  • Medical Abortion: Involves taking drugs to terminate a pregnancy, FDA-approved for use up to 10 weeks of pregnancy. Risks include incomplete abortion (which may require surgery), ongoing pregnancy, heavy bleeding, infection, fever, and digestive issues.
  • Surgical Abortion: Uses a combination of medical instruments, suction, drugs, or other tools to remove a pregnancy, typically later in pregnancy. Risks include uterine perforation, cervical damage, uterine scarring, and infection.

It’s also important to consider the potential mental health impacts, as some women report lasting emotional challenges following an abortion.

Considering Adoption

Adoption can be challenging. It involves carrying the pregnancy to term and letting go of the child you’ve been carrying.

However, modern adoption processes are flexible, allowing you to stay in control. You can select the adoptive family and decide the level of contact you want—whether through open communication, occasional updates, or complete confidentiality. Adoption agencies and counselors provide support to ensure your needs and preferences are respected throughout the process.

While adoption is not an easy choice, it can bring peace of mind knowing your child will have opportunities and a loving family.

We’re Here To Help

At Peak Women’s Care, we’re here to help you navigate this decision with compassion and understanding. We offer free pregnancy testing, ultrasounds, and information so you can make a confident choice.

Schedule a free, confidential appointment today to discuss your options one-on-one. Let us be a source of hope and support for you during this time.

*All abortion information sourced in this blog is based on accurate information at the time of writing.